My first trip to Hawaii was when my husband and I were engaged. He had been before, years prior, and it was the only placed he longed to vacation again. I had been to Grand Cayman once, and so I also shared a love of an island getaway, and living in San Diego, we both love the ocean.
I am not a big souvenir person. Especially not when it comes to mass produced trinkets with the name of your vacation locale plastered across them in obnoxious colors, like my mother would buy anywhere she went that wasn't home. But I do like to have something fantastic-only-to-me to bring home and remember my adventures by. On my trip to Grand Cayman I stashed a few pieces of brain coral that littered the beaches along the Queen's Highway. That and a sprouted coconut I found on the beach, determined to make it grow. The customs guy laughed at me for taking "rocks" and a coconut. The tree died, of course, but I still remember it fondly. In Hawaii I wanted to find something special, and I did. Or so I thought.
We were on the island of Maui and decided to devote an afternoon to exploring Lahaina. I didn't know what to expect, but I did not expect the quaint little village to be stuffed full of store after store of the exact types of souvenirs that I wanted no part of, flanked by a few very expensive art galleries and a couple of stores I might find in the mall here in San Diego. I was disappointed to say the least but we ducked into a crevice along the way to find a greasy plate of Kalbi (Korean short ribs) for my husband at a walk up restaurant. While waiting I checked out a couple of jewelry kiosks and myself fascinated by the woman who was selling at one of them. It was all very simple, inexpensive jewelry and as I looked over the items and put them back on the hooks, she offered to change the length of this, or the color of the clasp on that and the more items she was willing to customize for me, the more I wanted to buy. I have always loved handmade jewelry, I just had no idea that I could make it myself.
I found a few other local jewelry artists and on our subsequent trips to Maui, I would seek them all out and pick up a few items. I thought I had found a goldmine of inexpensive handmade jewelry. I would gush about it all to my sister, and buy gifts for her and my mother for upcoming birthdays.
Last year, my sister decided it was time to take her kids to Maui. We planned the trip together and I showed her all of my wonderful local secrets, including the jewelry. Although she seemed a little interested, she was not that impressed with the prices. I couldn't understand why, until she told me how simple it would be to make them myself and at a fraction of the cost.
Easy for her to say. My sister is amazing. She began sewing clothes for her dolls when she was about six, had booths at our county craft shows in middle school, was president of the home economics club in high school! This is a woman who not only made her own wedding dress, but also all of her bridesmaid's dresses and the jewelry we all wore! Seamstress, crafter, jewelry artist, scrapbooker, super-mom, Etsy shop owner (Tin Tiara Trims)...well you get the picture. SHE could make all of this. I couldn't. Not that I am without my artistic talent, but this was out of my realm. Especially now, with two toddlers and no free time. I didn't entertain that thought for more than a fleeting moment.
A few months later, a package arrived for my birthday. It was from my sister. Inside was a book on basic beading, some tools and an organizer filled with little metal parts and beads. Oh my! She had put a lot of thought into that. I was going to have to at least try it, to be able to tell her that I did. This was not the first time she tried to help foster my creativity. Many years ago she bought me a sewing machine. I had grand visions of making my own draperies and duvet covers. I mended a few things, not well I might add, but it has sat mostly untouched for the better part of the last ten years. She bought me watercolor paints, and I still plan to use them someday.... There have been other things over the years, but for some reason this was different.
One night after the kids were asleep, I decided to open the book and read. It still looked complicated and all of the materials and terms were foreign to me. But I pulled out the tools, followed the directions for making wire loops and in no time I had created a pair of earrings. Me! They were no works of art, really just a bead on a headpin on a hook, but it hadn't been hard and the reward was quick and gratifying. She was right. I could make anything I wanted to. Then I could take it apart and make something else! And I decided I needed more beads. And more findings. And some wire.....
And so began my obsession.
My sister was just here in San Diego visiting me with her two fantastic girls. For the first time in a long time we were able to sit down together and share our creativity and a similar passion that didn't involve the kitchen (she loves to bake, I like to cook - together we make way too much food!). It was great and I already miss them terribly. So I made a necklace inspired by what I thought she would love, with colors of the ocean from fluorite, apatite, ivory pearls, antique silver trade beads, and a translucent moss agate pendant that she gave to me. And she did love it.